In my work with you as a couple,

I will begin by listening in order to understand what's happening in your relationship today, your past together and your individual histories, as well as what you hope for your future together. I will ask you questions to clarify my understanding.

 

I will support you so that you can express yourselves in a way that allows you to be truly seen and heard by the other. Finally.

 

I believe that, with the support of a neutral person, it becomes possible to open up to each other about your feelings and needs in the relationship. It becomes possible to hear the other person as a whole without having to defend yourself. It becomes possible to say things clearly and finally be heard.

 

We will also observe together what "dance" you practice in your relationship. Are there dynamics in your relationship that repeat themselves like a broken record? How can you find the choice to break out of these patterns and develop new ones?

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We can also explore what to do if your nervous systems are overheated and what to do to protect your relationship.